Self-evaluation is a procedure to systematically observe, analyze and value your own action and its results in order to stabilize or improve it.
Understanding this meaning, you see that you cannot just look in the mirror and see yourself. You must look inward, at your thoughts on a subject or person. You have to consider not only your emotions but where they come from. The root.
Letting go of an old mindset is not as easy as it sounds. The First step is awareness but it does not stop there. We have a long way to go.
When we sit in the Presence of the Most High there is only you. There is no discussion of others. The question always turns back to you. So if you are hearing conversations about what other people did etc... you are not sitting in the Presence of the Most High, He is not a gossip. Understand you can only change you so you are the only subject matter necessary.
Having said this, look at you, deeply. Hear what the Most High says about you and let go of what is not light. Allow yourself the opportunity to change. Not just at the surface but the heart.
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